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Friday, December 21, 2012

A Very American Christmas Show!

The show was a success, and we had a full house for both performances! The first performance had a major hiccup because Lucas did not show up at all, leaving Amira and Hannah forced to improvise their lines in English. This goes without saying, but thinking of what to say on the spot in another language in front of an audience is no easy task. The girls were terrified, but they got through the scene without a problem. I was so proud of them, and that goes to show just how far their English has advanced! The improvisation workshop we did with them definitely came in handy! The performance earned more money than the other two groups we were sharing the theater room with, which earned Alex and me major points with the other teachers. We even got an email from one of the younger girls telling us that our show was wonderful. So far, this is one of my favorite moments in Germany. We’ve helped and watched these kids grow, and they have so much to show for it.  


All I need to do now is finish packing so I can go home for the holidays!



Thursday, December 20, 2012

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

All week, Alex and I have been consumed with lessons, rehearsing for our Christmas show, and preparing to go home. I did a Christmas lesson with my 7th and 8th graders on Christmas in America. I showed them my own personal pictures of the Christmas tree in New York City, and they were amazed to see how big it was. I also showed them pictures of the Christmas trees my family has had in the past, and they were quick to tell me that American trees are much more colorful than theirs. Most of them only use white lights and decorate it a few nights before Christmas. I didn’t realize that they waited so long to trim their trees, so they all laughed when I told them that many Americans have their trees set up right after Thanksgiving. No Christmas lesson is complete without a Christmas movie, so I showed them a scene from Elf that showcased New York City during the holidays. There may be a few differences in the way we celebrate Christmas, but Will Ferrell is a hit in both cultures.
Our Santa doesn’t completely know his lines for the Christmas show tomorrow, but everyone else is ready. If anything, he can just read the script and pretend it’s a Christmas list. I’m trying not to panic too much about this show because Alex got into law school yesterday! Rutgers Newark! I’m so proud of him, that trip to Munich was a success after all! And we’re going home in two more days! It’s officially the most wonderful time of the year!


Sunday, December 16, 2012

In Need of Some Christmas Miracles

Most Americans start getting ready for the holidays right after Thanksgiving. Germans follow a similar schedule. They start setting up their Christmas Markets in November. Alex and I visited were actually able to see this magical transformation in Osnabrück after the several times we visited in November. It was notably bigger than the one in Melle. Osnabrück gets points for a grand appearance. The giant nutcrackers and oversized nativity scene added to the festive stands which wrapped around a portion of the city.
Yesterday, we met up with some of the younger teachers we work with at the Osnabrück Christmas Market for some faculty bonding. To be honest, it’s not exactly what we wanted to do since these teachers weren’t that friendly, but we showed our face and had two glasses of Glühwein with them. Not to sound like a Scrooge, but the real reason why we stayed for two drinks was to collect the mugs from this market, too.
The Christmas show is on Friday, our student from Azerbaijan had to drop out of our show. Apparently, he is moving to Berlin because he is having problems with his host family. It’s a shame that he is having issues, but I can’t feel too bad for him since he’s moving to one of the coolest cities in the entire world.
Moving on to the bigger problem, this boy was our Santa, and what’s a Christmas show without a Santa? Things like this always seem to happen in theater right before a show. One of Alex’s students volunteered to take on the role, though. His English is better than most of his peers, so I think he will learn his lines by next week.
More sad news, my German lessons with Günther have been put on hold indefinitely. He left us a note in our mailbox that said he has cancer, and is going to the hospital for treatment. I dropped off a letter in in his mailbox during my jog thanking him for everything, but we haven’t heard anything.
This week brought on a few unexpected changes, but our apartment has enough holiday cheer to lift the Grinch’s spirits. My mom sent me a Christmas package with decorations, candy, and movies. It looks like Christmas threw up in here, but it makes me so happy to see the red and green all over our walls and to have our very own miniature tree. That woman knows how to spread holiday cheer better than anyone I know, even when she’s in another country! Six days until I go home!



Sunday, December 9, 2012

Christmas Marketing

The Christmas Market in Melle was extremely quaint, but definitely smaller than the one in Hamburg. I would say the food was equally delicious and the crafts were just as adorable, though. It was right in the center of town by the Rathaus, so Alex and I could swing by the bratwurst stand on the way home from school if we were hungry. A rather convenient setup for us… too bad it’s only up for the month of December!
Klaus invited Alex and me to see the Christmas Market in his town, Bad Rothenfelde, with him, his wife, and one of his sons. It was amusing for us to see how many Christmas Markets we would have the chance to visit. They all have the same cheery atmosphere, but vary in sizes depending on how big the town is. It was a cold night, but it made me happy to be a part of their family for the night. Only 13 more days until we go home to America for two weeks!
The Christmas show is going well. Everyone has memorized their lines, and I’m really happy to see that they are all becoming more comfortable with each other. The older kids usually sit on one side of the room, and the younger girls sit on the other. Lately, they are starting to interact more. Practicing on stage has helped them get into character more and bond with each other. They will perform the show twice at the school’s annual Christmas bazaar, and I am excited for my fellow teachers to see the progress these students have made with their English. They’ve come so far in such a short period of time.
Alex and I also attended the school’s Christmas concert which was held in the church by the Rathaus. With very short notice, we were asked to say a few words about our experience so far. We both agreed to speak in English, but at the last minute, my traitor-fiancé left me hanging and opted to show off his German. Clearly, I had no other option but to talk these non-English speakers in my native tongue since I could only compose sentences in German comparable to a two-year old. It was basically all crickets until I said, “Merry Christmas!” Naturally, that won me applause.  


Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Say "Yes" to Hamburg!

Melle and Osnabrück were setting up stands for their Christmas markets since mid-November, so Alex and I were excited to see what was in store for us this December. Each town prepares their own market with food and craft stands, so I knew where I was doing my Christmas shopping. This country knows how to celebrate Christmas! It’s very different than the holidays in America because we’re not allowed to have decorations for only one holiday in a classroom. It’s all or nothing. When I tried to explain to my students the idea of being inclusive and saying “happy holidays” instead of “merry Christmas,” they rejected that idea. Mostly everyone celebrates Christmas here, so the whole town is decked out with red and green.
My students also told me all about Weihnachtsmann, the German Santa Claus. They all leave their shoes out on Christmas Eve, and the Weihnactsmann fills them with candy. I’m not so sure how sanitary that is, but it’s a well-known tradition. For the record, I do not plan on leaving my shoes out for candy this Christmas, no matter how determined I am to blend into this country.
We heard from teachers and students that Hamburg offered one of the best Christmas markets, and since it was only a four hour train ride away, how could we not see for ourselves? We arrived later in the day to the city on December 1, which we learned was the optimal time to see the beautiful colors light up the market. Mistletoe stands, candle stores, craft stores, and so many delicious foods filled every row of this winter wonderland! Christmas Market’s quickly became my favorite thing about Germany. If I could bring one person in the world to a German Christmas Market, it would be my mother. She would be in heaven at one of these places. Christmas stores, decorations, carols, and hot Glühwein... every Christmas nerd’s fantasyland.


The harbor beside the Christmas Market made this one very unique. The water was illuminated by the lights from the celebration. It was a beautiful sight. As we were gazing out into the harbor, Santa was “flying” through the sky on his sled pulled by eight tiny and very artificial reindeer. This performance wasn’t unlike Tinkerbelle in Disney World flying through the Magic Kingdom. The story of Santa was projected through the market on loud speakers in German. While I couldn’t understand what was being said, the voice didn’t seem to match the famous story of Santa and Christmas. It was told in the most Satanic voice which I’m sure gave most of those children nightmares. Obviously, it was time for a new recording.


Santa flew through the sky twice, and after the second time, I saw Alex drop to his knee. My heart was racing because I knew this was the universal signal every girl waits for. My mind was flooded with the happiest memories from our past, the intense passion we still hold in the present, and the hope for a blissful future. After he told me how much he loved me and meant to him, he popped the big question and asked me to marry him. With all the confidence in the world, I accepted… Overwhelmed with love and Christmas spirit.
My life should be a movie. As if moving to Europe post-college with my boyfriend for a year wasn’t romantic enough, now he proposed to me at a German Christmas Market in Hamburg? Not only was this the ideal setting, but that moment made me the happiest girl alive to have everything I ever wanted. I am happy with the direction my life took and the decisions I have made. I would never change a single thing, and I’m lucky to say that. As a recent college graduate, I’m sure it comes as no surprise to most that I have no idea what I’m doing sometimes, but I am sure about this. Everything I like about myself comes out more when I’m with Alex, and that’s what life is about for me. Finding yourself and loving everything about it. If the last three months haven’t been a path of self-discovery, I don’t know what is. As far as the ring, well… I couldn’t stop ogling at it the rest of the night. Okay, the rest of the trip.


Newly engaged and floating on cloud nine, we explored the area some more. We even found ourselves in a very elegant Rathaus which looked like a church. The resemblance was so uncanny that we were actually fooled and blessed ourselves in the fountain next to the entrance… town halls in America are just not that fancy! I had a Jersey girl moment, but it could happen to any American!
After the humiliation passed, we decided it would be a good idea to grab a few drinks and celebrate our big night! We went to the Reeperbahn, which is Hamburg’s Red Light District, and had ourselves quite an evening. The first bar we went to had mostly old people kicking back with some cold ones. There was, however, a very old and entertaining woman chain smoking next to us at the bar. She looked about 110 pounds and was ripping shots every song change. She knew all the words to just about every song, too. A true regular. As much fun as it was watching the old bag of bones, we only stayed for one drink and then made our way to a younger scene. The club we went to gave all the girls one free glass of champagne, and then Alex and I decided to drink too many LIT’s. It was enough to make us dance like Swayze. I’ll never learn my lesson with that drink. Good thing Alex had enough wits about him to leave, otherwise I would have stayed all night.
When we were at the U-Bahn station, Alex actually went to look at departure times. Sober Megan would not have been surprised by this because the boy checks the schedule about 20 times each trip. That being said, a night with LIT’s never fares well for me, so I wasn’t in my right frame of mind. I didn’t realize he left, so I went into panic mode wondering where my personal translator went off to. Was he coming back? How do I say “help” in German? What’s the name of the hostel? Would I have to barter my beautiful ring to pay off his kidnappers? I did the only thing I could think of in that moment… cry. The second he was in sight, I felt an instant wave of relief. He was really only gone for about 30 seconds total. No more LIT’s for me.
The next morning, we went next door to a restaurant that served us an American breakfast. And it tasted like home! It started to snow outside, but the cold was bearable. On the way to the harbor, we took a small detour in Hamburg’s sketchiest park. It seemed desolate with hipster graffiti and a fun jungle-gym to climb on, so we thought it would be worth the stop… and it was a great idea, until we were approached by Middle Eastern drug dealing gangsters. We tried to slip out of the park without engaging in conversation, but one of them caught up to us and started to speak in German. We thought he was asking to take a picture of us, so I gave him my camera. He looked baffled, but snapped a quick shot. Then he gave the camera back, which I wasn’t really expecting to happen. He switched over to English and tried to sell us weed, but we quickly said no and walked out of that park without looking back. Awkward.


Once we made it to the harbor, Alex and I bought tickets for a cruise. Everything was said in German, but it seemed like the best way to see the city. As soon as the sun went down, so did the temperature. As cold as it was, we were happy to walk around and get some Christmas shopping done. We even got into the sea spirit of things and bought Nordsee crab sandwiches…. I’m not so sure how Alex ate his whole sandwich. After one bite, I regretted my meal and wanted to upchuck everything in my stomach. It was too fishy for my liking.


The bar we went to that night wasn’t too crowded and was located near our hostel. It reminded me lot of good, old New Brunswick, which will always hold a special place in my heart. There is a lot of youth in Hamburg, and very dirty in a struggling artist kind of way. It unmasked the city’s heart and soul, I thought. Our hostel was great, too. It had its own kitchen, so we saved a lot of money by bringing our own meals to prepare there.
Before we left Hamburg, Alex and I felt compelled to get more Glühwein from one of the Christmas Market stands. No, not just for the buzz. We wanted to keep the mugs as souvenirs because they said Hamburg on them, the city we got engaged in. We also bought a bratwurst there. Yes, I remember what Herr Meyer said about the cute wild boars, but I figured it was a German specialty that I couldn’t miss out on… and to be honest, I’m glad I didn’t because it put sausage in America to shame!


Friday, November 16, 2012

Starting Christmas Early

By some early Christmas miracle, Alex and I wrote the entire script for our American Theater Group last night. We made sure to include a role for each student, and cast them accordingly. It’s about a little girl who is trying to find out whether or not Santa Claus is real. Classic American Christmas tale. We decided to use the names of our friends and family members, too. Since we don’t really know the names of our students, we started calling them by their names in the show… including our homeless person character. She now goes by “homeless.” Our Santa Claus is from Azerbaijan, and one of our other characters is from Thailand. Apparently, word spread about our theater group and another girl came to rehearsal today, even though we already casted everyone. Alex and I didn’t want to tell her to leave, so we told her that we would write in a part for her and she would have it by next Friday. She can open the show, everyone needs a show starter.
We have a very diverse group of students, and working on their English is going to be a fun challenge. To get everyone in the Christmas spirit, we even brought in homemade Christmas cookies for everyone. Off to a good start.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Essen und Döner Kebabs

I had my second lesson with Günther today, and we talked about different types of food. I was surprised to see what I was already familiar with due to my very frequent exposure to these words at the grocery stores we visit far too often. I can form simple sentences, but anything that is complex is beyond my brain capacity. The structure and word order of German sentences is so different from English. Every word has a gender, too. Apparently, it’s intuitive for Germans to know the gender of a word and how to conjugate it. It feels like learning this language is going to demand a lot more attention than the Spanish classes I took in high school… I wasn’t even that great in those.
Wednesdays do have their perks, for us, though. After our German lessons, we go down the street from our house to Metin’s and eat döner kebabs. It’s similar to a Greek gyro, but in my opinion, far superior. I’ve become a huge fan of Turkish food and the deal we get at our restaurants. The döners are 2.50 euros… half off their normal price! It’s the little things in this town that seem to make me happy… but those little things make Wednesdays something to look forward to. I can’t believe America doesn’t have more döner kebab stands!


Friday, November 9, 2012

Remembering Home

It’s the end of the first week back to school after fall break, and our schedule is still MIA. Alex and I are hounding teachers to give us hours, and some are more helpful than others. We’ve met our hour requirements for the week, at least. On Tuesday, we both went to Ingmar Brunn’s 8th grade class. As soon as we walked in, all of the students stood up and said the Pledge of Allegiance… hands over their hearts and all! It was a really precious moment, and I was so impressed with how proficient their English was at such a young age. Alex and I talked to them about Hurricane Sandy and how it was impacting our friends and family member back home in Jersey. I won’t lie, I’m glad I missed that one. We also discussed the presidential election, and Alex taught them about the Electoral College. Imagine explaining that concept to a bunch of German 8th graders… I don’t even think most Americans fully understand how it works, so I’m pretty sure a lot of it went over their heads. Overall though, it was a fun lesson and Ingmar is going to give us more lessons with his class.
We repeated the same lesson in a few other classes. Klaus Brinkmann and Matthias Beck have agreed to make us a permanent addition to their classes. I will be with Matthias’s 7th graders, who are the most energetic group of students I have yet to meet. It’s amazing to see the level of class participation with the younger students because they all raise their hands to answer a question in class. Their genuine eagerness to learn motivates me to go to school each day. Klaus will have Alex and me speak with his 8th graders and 10th graders in conversation groups. His younger students visit us in groups of three, whereas his older students must engage in a one-on-one conversation with us. The concept seems to intimidate them, but once they have finished our discussion, it’s obvious how proud of themselves they all are for maintaining a dialogue.
Today, Alex and I held auditions for our Christmas show. Auditions were far more relaxed than the ones I was used to in high school, but I think it was better this way because we had such a wide array of age groups. Everybody auditioned in front of each other as I took notes on their performance. Alex and I plan on writing the show by next week and divvying out parts to each student by then. We’re not sure exactly how we’re going to do this in a week’s time, but I’m sure it will get done.
We also bought our plane tickets home today! I’m so excited to see my family next month. This has been the longest I have been away from home, and I miss them terribly. Until then, we have a lot to do, so I am sure time will go by quickly and we’ll be home for the holidays before we know it.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Wednesdays with Günther

The Meyers introduced us to their family during their “Oktoberfest” dinner. Alex and I went downstairs and ate supper with them in the Wintergarten. It was a typical German meal with a lot of sausage and beer. I used just about every German phrase I knew, which wasn’t many, but it was rewarding to practice my new language skills. There are plenty of sounds I don’t think I will ever be able to make, but I’m certainly working on it.
Herr Meyer introduced us to his old friend, Günther. He is such a tragic character. He is an elderly man whose wife just passed away, and now he has nothing to occupy his time. His house is always very cold and messy, and he is always wearing the same disheveled looking clothes with a terrible comb over. This is why men need women around. Ironically, he used to be an English teacher at Gymnasium Melle, so Herr Meyer thought it would be a good way for me to practice my German, and also keep Günther company.

Our first lesson was focused on learning vocabulary, and Alex has been learning new words, too. We plan on meeting weekly on Wednesdays. It’s beneficial for all of us, really. It’s our very own German version of Tuesdays With Morie… “Wednesdays with Günther.”  

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Taking a Trip to Amsterdam!

Just like September, October seemed to vanish into thin air. Time was going by fast, but we had a lot to show for it. My contract officially started October 15, though I had already been working with some of the classes since September. My most recent lesson in Katja’s class was fun for a film buff like me because I had her 11th graders create a deleted scene from a movie they watched called Outsourced. They weren’t too keen on speaking German with me initially, but I think the ice will break eventually. I was also with her 8th grade class that Alex also joins once a week. The younger students are much more eager to learn because they don’t seem as embarrassed when they make grammatical errors. Their enthusiasm is appreciated on my end, and I’m officially regretting all those moody teenage moments I ever had in high school. To any victims of my teenage angst, you’ll be happy to know that karma found me.
I’m going to start my American Theater Group after fall break. It started on October 20 and actually lasts two weeks. Another benefit to a European vacations. These kids have days off left and right. Alex and I are really excited to have our future students perform a Christmas show!
As far as a set schedule goes, Alex and I still don’t have one for after break. We’ve just been going to classes with Silke, Katja, and the few teachers who want us. Most teachers only invite us in their class for one lesson and then can’t seem to think of another reason to have us. It’s kind of embarrassing that we’re practically begging for hours at this point… and our mentors aren’t much help. They just tell us to keep asking. So, to further humiliate ourselves, we handwrote a letter to every English teacher and put it in their mailboxes offering our assistance. Hopefully that will do that trick… or at least buy us a few more pity hours.
Germans don’t celebrate Halloween like Americans do, that’s for sure. There were no scary decorations up anywhere or places to buy costumes. Most pumpkins we saw were Japanese pumpkins, and they weren’t good for carving! We did uncover “normal” pumpkins, though, and we brought them back to our apartment to celebrate Halloween the American way! They rotted after two days, but it’s the thought that counts.


Our German bank account at the Sparkasse is also looking better since Alex finally got paid… nearly two months later. Better late than never, I suppose. Since we were feeling wealthier and not relying on the 25 cent Pfand from our water bottles any longer, we took a two night trip to Amsterdam from October 26-28. Everything was planned out perfectly. The night before we left, we chose what attractions we wanted to do through the Holland Pass since it offered such a great deal. It was the first trip I ever planned so thoroughly without my parents, and I’ll admit, the control freak inside of me felt liberated to be in charge of exactly what we were going to do each day. We also packed and prepared food to bring to cut down on our spending… yes, we got paid, but we had to make the paycheck last for the month. It was our third overnight trip, and I’m proud to say that my packing skills are vastly improving upon each endeavor. I only bring the essentials now instead of two weeks worth of clothes for a weekend getaway.
On Friday, we went to the train station with our mapped out train transfers, platforms and all. All the excess planning we did went awry when we ended up getting on the wrong train since we never switched platforms. We travelled two hours in the wrong direction, making us four hours behind schedule. The third person to check our ticket told us we were on the wrong train… not the first or second… the third… how attentive. So we took a five minute train back to Hannover, and went to the help desk, who advised us to buy a 30 euro ticket back to Bünde, and from there, our original ticket would be valid. Once we were on the train and headed in the right direction, all was well in vacation world. Everything we do in this country seems to take us twice, maybe three times as long as a typical German. We’re bound to get the hang of it, eventually…
By the time we actually arrived in Amsterdam it was nearly 5pm, and we were quick to purchase our Holland Passes at the train station… it was nice, and somewhat bizarre, to speak English again and actually understand conversations around me. I’m so used to being a feather in a whirlwind and sticking out like a sore thumb that blending in was a foreign feeling.
We walked for 40 minutes to our hostel, admiring all the glorious sights along the way and breathing in the scent of Amsterdam tulips, among other familiar scents. After we dropped our things off in the six bedroom hostel, we went to a nearby bar where we met our new friend, Devon. He heard Alex and I speaking in English, and was very blunt when he asked to hang out with us. Naturally, we welcomed the company. Coincidentally, he is also a part of Fulbright and is living in Turkey for his second year. This is not the first time Alex and I have been stopped to converse with someone because the two of us were speaking in English, and I find it harmonious that language can be such a uniting factor.
After we parted ways with our new friend, Alex and I attempted to explore Amsterdam more. We even walked around the Red Light District. It was far cleaner and safer than I had imagined it to be, and I’ll even go a step further to add that the Atlantic City hookers don’t have a thing on Amsterdam prostitutes. The women in their windows were actually really pretty. Kudos to the girls that pretend to read books, brush their hair, and talk on the phone… they’ve given me hope that Pretty Woman may actually be a nonfiction film.
We certainly were able to sightsee that night after getting turned around in all of the canals. It all looked the same! Once we collected our bearings, it was late and we were ready to call it a night.
The next day, we did a “100 Highlights Canal Cruise” that lasted about an hour. There was an audio guide that spoke in five different languages… as annoying as it was to switch languages every other sentence, it was surprisingly well timed out with every landmark we saw. We learned about the houses with 15-40 rooms each, the gables, and the hooks on top of the houses to lift things from outside to inside the rooms since the staircases were designed to be too narrow to move things through them.


Then, we headed over to the Heineken Experience where we were schooled on the many wonders of beer. We received a quick history on Heineken and the family, and it made me appreciate the brand much more than I ever did. Great marketing. Not only did we see how much effort went into brewing beer, but we tasted it without the hops, too, and that is just all in all an unpleasant experience. There was even a virtual ride, which made me slightly nauseous. The free beers we were given at the end didn’t do much for my stomach, but I somehow choked it down.


It was getting darker, and with that, colder, so we put warmer clothes on at the hostel and headed to the Pancake Bakery. This was somehow the only food we managed to buy on this trip. I’m thinking that German Megan is turning into quite the survivor. Anyways, the restaurant was absolutely packed and we waited for at least 30 minutes, but it was well worth it. We both had one pancake the size of our plates. My pancake had banana, nutella, and a scoop of chocolate ice cream. I’ve always been a dessert kind of girl, but I wish I got a ham and cheese pancake because it was too rich. The pancake was really light and omelette like, so I think I could have gotten something of that nature and have been happy. Alex ordered a delicious pancake with apple, bacon, and a scoop of vanilla ice cream. I had the worst case of food envy. The Holland Passes we bought paid off yet again because we even got a glass of free apple cider.



We capped off the night with drinks at a bar themed like The Doors. Alex turned me onto their music and the movie, so it was a good time had by all.
Sunday, we woke up early and refreshed since it was daylight savings and headed to the train station. Since we didn’t buy our return ticket in advance in Germany, we had to go to the information desk in order to use our Bahn50 cards. We had to go to the booking agency and wait 20 minutes to get our ticket from an agent. Again, simple processes like these probably take far less time for your average German, but we’re clearly still new to everything. Thus, the simplest situation will be complicated
Once business was taken care of, we rushed to the Anne Frank Huis to make use of our last day in the Netherlands. I was looking forward to this leg of the journey for a while! Before we left Melle, we both read her diary in preparation for the museum. The eagerness and pure excitement washed away the minute we saw how long the line was… it wrapped around the corner for hours. It was like seeing a wait for Splash Mountain in Disney World in 100 degree heat.
Disappointed, but resolute on cramming in as many activities as possible, we didn’t waste any time and entered the Amsterdam Dungeon. This is a place I shouldn’t go in 50 years if I have a weak heart, or I’ll probably end up in the emergency room. Lucky me, I was selected for audience participation in one of the scenes. I blame my parents for this because I think it’s the red hair that makes me stand out, and thus, I am more likely to draw unwanted attention to myself. I was dubbed a witch in one of the acts and had to knock on a door three times. To my dismay, the door opened and I was instructed to enter the room by myself where a ghostly character was waiting to frighten me… yes, it worked. His frightening demeanor disappeared abruptly when he noticed I was just about hyperventilating. Then he told me to sit, and said, “Sorry love for scaring you. Who are you here with?” Before I could even mumble some kind of English, he jumped up and got ready for the rest of the crowd who was finally rejoining me. There was even a fun 15 second ride at the end, comparable to Skull Mountain at Six Flags.
After that, we went to the Amsterdam Museum. My favorite room included celebrity photos taken by a man from Amsterdam that captured a unique essence of each person that I could appreciate, but my mind was still on the Anne Frank Huis.
When we went back to Anne’s, the line was still too long and along came the unwanted icky feeling in the pit of my stomach. Even though the idea was abandoned, we took pictures of the outside of the house. On the bright side, we were up 40 euros.
Daylight was burning rather quickly, but we managed to visit the Houseboat Museum in all of 12 minutes to see and admire the entire thing. It was adorable, and if I wasn’t moving back to an apartment in Jersey next year, I just may have opted for one of these. However, I have a tendency to get seasick, so I’d probably OD on Dramamine after the first week.
Pressed for time, Alex and I dashed to the train station. There was a minor and very necessary pit stop along the way though… one of the shop windows displayed the most popular, the most delicious, and the most addicting candy ever… Reese’s! No, blog followers… not marijuana, candy. And we are deprived of anything peanut butter in Germany, so we had to take advantage of the situation. After those last minute purchases, we were forced to literally sprint our way to the train.
Once the train pulled into Germany, the police asked to see our passports and asked if we were vacationing, standard customs check. It was our first time showing off our brand new residence permits, which was way better to show than our passports in this scenario to prove that we were living in Europe. Of course, they had to comment on Alex’s last name, “Firsichbaum,” which means “peach tree” in German. They always ask him if he knows what it means, and then have a good chuckle to themselves about it, as if they were the first to ask this American boy with a German last name this question. If we had a euro for every time a German commented on his last name, we wouldn’t have to worry about getting paid anymore, I can say that much. Amsterdam was a fantastic trip, but it is on my bucket list to go back and see Anne Frank’s Huis.


Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Residents of Germany

We’re officially legal residents of Germany until June 30, 2013! Alex got a letter in the mail saying that his residence permit was ready to be picked up in Osnabrück. Everyone knew that his wouldn’t be a problem, but I was overcome with fear when my letter didn’t come in the mail. My 90 visitor days were wearing thin…
The two of us had only been to the immigration office in Osnabrück by car with Katja, and Google Maps told us it was a distance from the train station. The only thing to do was to take our bikes on the train. That was even more annoying than the luggage fiasco.

Once we got to the city, we rode our bikes to the office. They gave Alex his brand new residence permit, as promised, and coincidentally, had mine ready to go, too! It was so exhilarated! Everything was falling into place, and all the exasperating paperwork was worth it!



Thursday, October 11, 2012

LSAT + Oktoberfest = Alex and Megan

We were sitting on a Munich bound train before the sun was even up on October 6 so that Alex could take his LSAT exam. The train ride was six hours long, and we would arrive in the city about an hour before his exam. That would give us just enough time to drop our things off at the hostel, refuel, and get Alex to the test that would determine where he would attend school next year. Moreover, we were going to Munich in October… how could we not swing by the last weekend of Oktoberfest? It was ironic that the LSAT’s were taking place in Munich during this internationally famous drinking festivity, but we weren’t going to question it.
The frightening thought of being alone in a German city for the first time never crossed my mind. Being the anal individual that I am, it may have caused me nightmares. Therefore, I developed a plan! My friend Anthony from high school will also be in Germany this year. He joined the Air Force, and they stationed him in Germany. He lives about seven hours away from Melle, so an unscheduled play date was out of the question. However, I Facebook messaged him and found out that he would be at Oktoberfest that weekend, too. Perfect! Not only was I excited to see a friend from home since it’s been what feels like forever, but “Operation Keep Busy While Alex Takes the LSAT” was full proof. Or so I thought…
I called Anthony when we got to Munich, and we played a game of phone tag for a while. When he finally answered my call, he told me that he couldn’t find our pre-established meeting place or a map to get him there. There was no map in sight for me either. Besides, I like to rely on my Tom-Tom. Time was escaping us, and Alex’s exam was getting closer and closer. He was flustered and didn’t want to leave me alone, but that’s what had to be done. We both split up for the first time since September 1, and all I know from this experience is that separation anxiety is a real thing!
I held my composure, though, because there was nothing I could do about the situation for the next four hours, and tried to make the best of my time. American Megan would probably be cranky about this whole debacle, but European Megan was determined to see the silver lining. It was my first time really giving optimism a real shot, and it showed me a great time. Nobody is more flabbergasted about this new found attitude than me.
At first, I didn’t want to stray too far from the university where Alex was, but the surroundings eventually bored me. I took a giant leap of faith and walked across the street where I took pictures in the park. Then, the most miraculous thing happened… I stumbled upon an English map of Munich in front of an art museum and explored my first European city by myself. Scary, but liberating! I even ordered myself a coke in German! I must have practiced the phrase a dozen times before I said it to the employee, and it still came out terrible, but I was so proud of myself and excited about my accomplishment! At this point in the trip, I didn’t realize I could get away with speaking English since Munich is such a touristy city. That being said, I think Germans appreciate the effort. It gave me confidence that I could really do whatever I wanted this year. I can conquer my fears and achiever great things. I already have. Admittedly, it was a good feeling to reunite with Alex. Like I said, separation anxiety.


The LSAT’s were over, and I was a new European woman! We began the celebrations that night. We made every attempt to make it to the fairgrounds, but a bar playing American music stopped us dead in our tracks. We stopped and had quite a few German beers there with a crowd you wouldn’t find in Melle. Everyone was dancing and singing all of the words to “Country Roads,” “Sweet Caroline,” and the “Macarena.” It was a good way to commemorate our triumphs, and we somehow made it back to our hostel without using a map.



The next day, we begrudgingly woke up with pounding headaches, so we each popped some Motrin and headed to breakfast. The hostel that we stayed at was nicer than I anticipated. I was expecting a filthy building with scummy people, but it was just the opposite. Yes, our room did have 36 people bunking in it, but they were all very respectful of everyone else. I feel like that would not be the case in a room filled with Americans celebrating any drinking holiday. We each had our own bed and locker, and breakfast was offered until 10am. Alex forbade me from seeing Hostel until after my first stay in one so my judgment wouldn’t be skewed, but I think I’m ready for it now.
After I mended the worst hangover of my life, we finally made it to the event that Munich is known for… Oktoberfest! It was basically Disney World for adults. Rides, beer, and Bavarians! We had our first and only liter of beer in a Paulaner tent. It was 9.40 euros per liter and we still had not gotten paid yet, so it was hard to justify spending any more of our money on alcohol that gave me hangovers from hell. The younger kids we sat by were extremely Bavarian, like our new friend, Marvin. He was born and raised in Munich, and wearing real lederhosen that has been in his family for generations. He told us that he wears it during the monthly celebration of Oktoberfest and for holidays, like Easter. The leather was very nice, but something tells me it’s not a trend that will catch on in America anytime soon.



Apart from the attractive lederhosen and dirndl everywhere, I’ve also noticed how intimidatingly pretty German girls are. Most of them don’t wear much makeup at all, and so many of them have gorgeous blonde hair and blue eyes… especially the girls from Munich. It’s hard to be around because I know I have too many spots on my face that need to be covered up before leaving the house. I tried wearing less makeup to fit in more, but I don’t think I’m converting to that aspect of German femininity any time soon.
All of the rides were lit up at night on the fairgrounds, and everyone was wearing their heart-shaped cookies that said different things in German. We bought one written in Bavarian that said “i mog di,” which means, “I like you.” We were also festive enough to buy a giant German pretzel, and it was every bit as delicious as it sounds.



Screw Disney World… I’m going back to Oktoberfest when I have money.

Monday, October 1, 2012

First Impressions of My New Home

We survived all of September magnificently! As hard as it seemed at times, we were definitely honeymooning as far as culture shock goes. Everything was so new for us. Dogs were absolutely everywhere. Not only was it probable that every German household owned a dog, but they brought them everywhere. Inside the grocery store, on the trains, shopping. I even witnessed a man coming out of a changing room with his little dog in hand. Absurd.


Alex and I finally got our bicycles after a month of living the pedestrian lifestyle. Walking became unbearable after about a week when we started going to the grocery store every other day and our backpacks would get heavier every trip, because no, they do not give out plastic bags for your food. You must buy them, and we hadn’t gotten paid yet, so we were saving as much as we could. The only trouble with riding bicycles is understanding the laws. Apparently, you can only ride on the red sidewalks, and on a certain side of the street. There seem to be more laws that I don’t know of since people tend to yell at me in German when I ride by them, but that’s all I know of for now. I see people texting while riding their bicycles. Now, that has be illegal… It requires skill, but illegal.
For all my jaywalking American friends, kick that habit if you ever come to Germany. No matter how long the light is, no matter how desolate the streets are, one is never to cross the street until the light is green. If you do, brace yourself for some nasty look from the one German who saw you break the law that will haunt your dreams for at least a week.



If the food cabinets and fridge are empty on Sundays, don’t plan on restocking until Monday. Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING is closed on Sundays. It’s not even open for a few hours. Plan your meals for the week out accordingly when in Germany.
Need to use the bathroom? No problem… as long as you have 50 cents… sometimes even 1 euro. That’s right, it costs money to use the toilet in Germany. I will say this, though. The bathrooms are much cleaner than any public restroom you’ll find in America.
Another funny thing I don’t understand is that Germans don’t like peanut butter. I noticed that there was only one brand of peanut butter in one of the three regular grocery stores I visit. So, when I talked to a few classes about a typical American school experience, I asked them if they ever had peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch. It turns out, they don’t like peanut butter here! Not even Reese’s! They do, however, eat Nutella sandwiches regularly. Another mind boggling mystery for the books.
Restaurants function a bit different, too. There is no host to greet and seat you to your table. Alex and I learned that the hard way when we stood around waiting like idiots. You seat yourself in most places. Also, you must ask for the bill, otherwise, you’ll be waiting all night for it. One good thing about German restaurants is tipping… a large tip isn’t required because the waiters work off salaries. Oh, and pepperoni pizza in Germany is not what pepperoni pizza is in America. Another lesson I learned the hard way. Peperoni pizza has peppers on it. Order salami pizza for an American pepperoni experience.



Alex and I have been sharing one phone which we barely ever use since we’ve been here. There’s no point in getting a second phone, but it’s quite an adjustment. I feel really disconnected to the world. I can’t tell if I like it or not yet. Our internet is really terrible, too. We only get 5 gigs of internet a month that we share between the two of us, so we try to ration it out weekly. For those of you who haven’t seen German television, you’re really not missing anything. It’s How I Met Your Mother and Big Bang Theory dubbed over into horrendous German voices. The only English speaking shows we get are the news channels. I guess I won’t be keeping up with the Kardashians this year.
The Fulbright conference in Altenburg made me really excited for this year in Germany. We completed several workshops and learned how to be teaching assistants at our schools. Technically, no, I’m not a Fulbrighter, but I was welcome to sit in on the sessions because I had the same job as everybody there. Speaking to other people about their insecurities and nervousness for the year made me feel less alone. I knew that there were a lot of people going through the same thing as me, and it was comforting to know I wasn’t the only person who was anxious for what Germany had to offer. We even made a new friend at the conference named Andrew who is married and coincidentally living in Herford, a town nearby. We’ve been hanging out with them a lot lately and it’s nice to have English speaking allies in a country where I feel completely oblivious at times. We all bonded over Germany’s foreign practices, like their trash rituals. Germans separate every piece of garbage, and sometimes, I really have no idea if my sandwich wrapper belongs in the paper, compost, or waste… the only thing I could rule out in this scenario would be plastic. So, I just throw it in one of the bins and hope nobody saw what it was. Little things like that can drive an American girl crazy after a while!



Katja brought us to Osnabrück to get our work/residence visas, which certainly tedious. The people running the Fulbright conference said it wouldn’t be difficult getting these documents approved in a small town, so that’s one thing I was thankful for about being placed in Melle. I was still nervous that it wouldn’t go through, though, for some reason.
The other day, I even mustered up the courage to walk into Tedi, Melle’s very own euro store, to purchase a notebook. It’s very similar to America’s cheesiest dollar stores… you can even find pillows shaped like breasts. Classy. Anyways, listening to Tom Petty’s “American Girl” during my jog must have given me some rush of independence. Immediately after my work out, I hummed that little diddy all the way to the store, determined to grab my new German life by the horns. I even sashayed my way up to the register singing that tune in my head. All music and new found liberation came to a halt when the cashier asked me something in German. My heart sank. Instant defeat and confusion flooded my face. She gestured at a bag since it was obvious that I had no clue what she was asking me. Embarrassed, I nodded my head yes, took my notebook, and bolted out the door with my tail between my legs. One minute, I’m on top of the world. The next minute, my life is a tragedy… some may say comedy. “All by Myself” was now on repeat in my head. I wasn’t fooling this town I was German anytime soon.




Sunday, September 9, 2012

Surviving Week One

Alex and I finally arrived to Germany on September 2, a Sunday, after a long summer of preparation and a quick panic attack the day before departure! Packing was certainly rough, but we were both under weight restrictions at the Newark International Airport. Both of our families met up at Peter Pank’s Diner in Sayerville for a quick breakfast, and then journeyed on to the airport. After hanging out at the cheesy airport shops, we finally had to say our goodbyes to our families. I wanted to get it over with as fast as possible in efforts not to cry. So I hugged and kissed my parents, brother, and Alex’s family, told them I loved them, and fought back some serious tears. As we waited on line to get through security, our families waited and waved until we couldn’t see each other anymore.
I realized that our adventure had just begun… I had also just taken a Xanax, so maybe that had a little something to do with my sudden surge excitement. Of course, this excitement was coupled with fear of the unknown… nothing the Xanax wouldn’t take care of for the time being. Alex and I sat at the appropriate gate and anxiously waited for our 4:30pm departure.
We sat for what seemed like hours when we heard a last call for “Brady” and “Firsichbaum” on the loud speaker. They changed the gate and we had no idea! We hurried over to the right gate and boarded without an issue. Potential crisis number one averted.


The two of us sat on the plane and surprisingly found our eight hour flight to be delightful. We played half a game of scrabble, drank free alcohol, and ate two delicious meals. We were starting the next 10 months off right, I’d say.
We slept for about an hour and a half before we landed in Düsseldorf where we went through customs and collected our baggage. Everything around us was German. The voices, the signs, the food. There were even dogs running around me without a leash. This girl was not in Jersey anymore.
Then, we made our first German investment for the year… we bought Bahn50 cards. These cards would give us 50% off all of our train tickets in Germany. Since this would be our main source of transportation of the year, it seemed like a wise purchase. Goodbye terrible drives and Jersey Shore traffic. Can’t say I’ll miss you. Then, we took a train from the Dusseldorf train station to Osnabrück, and from there to Melle. Even though Deutche Bahn is so much more efficient and cleaner than NJ Transit, the culture shock started to set in. Alex and I had to move from every seat we sat in because they were reserved, so as I sat in between the train cars with my massive suitcase that I accidentally rolled into five victims, I felt overwhelmed. I couldn’t even apologize to these people because all I knew was English. Was this real life?
Silke was supposed to pick us up, but we didn’t have a working cell phone, and we couldn’t figure out the payphones to save our lives. Asking someone was simply out of the question. The only thing left to do was get from A to B the old fashioned way. Walking. It’s a good thing Alex downloaded a map of Germany to the only working part of his phone, because that’s how we found our flat. After ¾ of a mile rolling our luggage on cobblestone road in the heat, we arrived at the Meyers… EXHAUSTED!


Alex introduced us to the Meyers, and they brought us upstairs to our new home. It was the first time I ever heard him speak in German to someone, and it was really impressive. Frau Meyer called Silke, and she and Katja arrived nearly 20 minutes later. We hadn’t had a second alone at this point, so after Silke made me want to rip my own ears off with her ongoing babble, Katja finally suggested we nap and we’d meet up three hours later for dinner.
Three hours went by entirely too fast for people who were jet lagged and had barely slept. Silke, Katja, and Rudolf, another work colleague who had also lived at the Meyer’s, brought us to a fancy pizza place. I ate a vegetarian pizza with a knife and fork. What kind of country allows its people to eat pizza with anything but their hands? That made me uncomfortable. I also had a glass of water, which I learned is actually more expensive to order at a restaurant than a beer, go figure! Our three new German friends then showed us around Melle and treated us for ice cream. I probably seemed like a zombie all night, but first impressions aren’t everything.
Alex and I woke up at 4am, bright eyed and bushy tailed. Jet lag is a mysterious thing, and I’ll never quite understand it because I really could have used this new found energy earlier. In order to burn some fuel, we decided to become more acquainted with the town and walk around. Nobody was outside and it seemed eerie, but it was nice to have a good look at our new stomping grounds. It was a stereotypical German town with triangular-roofed houses and picturesque hills. I was missing home, even though my state is the armpit of America. I will just have to get used to it though.
Monday: We woke up and met Silke at the school at 11:45am. She took us shopping at Edeka, the food store by the school. She is supposed to be our mentor, along with Katja, so we’re trying to take our German social cues from them. Then, we had lunch with our leaders back at the school cafeteria among some of our future students. Nobody talked to us, but I think they knew who we were.
Katja then took us to O2 to get our phone and internet plans situated. That took forever and a day, but Alex and I were able to call our parents and began going online that night. Since the last few days were clearly stressful, we felt justified in drinking our new German beer and exploring the depths of Melle. The two of us quickly grasped how strong German beer is after the first half liter, but that only seemed to encourage a few more rounds. Later, we stumbled to a park nearby our house with our beer because Germany does not have an open container law! Something I can definitely get used to! Maybe it was the liquid courage, but I felt more determined to conquer this school year. I fell in love with our town that night.
On the way back, we snagged a mattress a few houses down from us that somebody left out for the garbage. We figured that our future guests would need a place to sleep when they would all come visit us. Carrying it upstairs to our apartment was a challenge, but we succeeded. How could this year be anything but great?
Tuesday: Well, after the night we had, it’s not too surprising that we overslept our meeting with Silke and the Headmaster, Herr Woll, by hours. Instead of going to the school since we missed our time slot and we weren’t even getting paid at this point, we saw the Meyer’s garden, had a beer, and Herr Meyer drove us around parts of Melle. We even saw the mini golf course right by our school.
Silke was upset, but we arranged to meet her for lunch the next day. I had a terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach for not showing up, but we weren’t even required to be at the school. We just arrived to this country two days ago! Regardless, we were determined to make things right the next day.
Wednesday: We met with Silke for lunch and agreed to meet with the headmaster the next day. We went shopping for more food, as usual since our refrigerator would really only suffice in Barbie’s dream house. Another trip to O2 with Katja was also necessary because we were having phone issues. That guy was not happy to see us again… the people of Melle were not used to foreigners, but their small town would have to make room for two Americans.
Thursday: Our meeting with the headmaster went really well. He accepted our apology without thinking twice, seemingly, and he said we’d figure something out for my job. The man doesn’t speak a lick of English, and my German is nonexistent, so Silke and Katja served as translators for the two of us during our entire conversation. Then, Astrid, the head of the English department, took us to sign some papers at Town Hall for proof of residence.
When official business was taken care of, the two of us sat in on different classes at the school. I was with Silke and her 12th year students. They were really interested in me and I had a nice time watching their lesson. I just introduced myself and mostly observed for the rest of the class, but it was fun to see what my new job was going to be like. It was my first time being on my own though, so this new feeling started to fester in my stomach. It wasn’t exactly excitement or fear… all I knew was that I didn’t know what to expect from this year. I know I’ll make this work for me, though. Even if I have no idea what is going on, I’ll figure it out. This would make me a strong woman. Besides, I have my own personal translator living with me. What more do I need?
After my moment of realization, Alex and I went food shopping, yet again.
Friday: We thought it was going to be a boring day since Silke wouldn’t be breathing down our necks, but the Meyers ended up driving us around and we saw wild boars and my first castle! The baby boars were absolutely adorable, and they walked right up to us. They’re Germany’s equivalent to deer, only they don’t run away at the drop of a stick. I’ve never seen wild boars before, and I thought they were the most adorable creatures… and then Herr Meyer said we’d be eating them at the Christmas Market. Lovely. I made a mental note of that so I wouldn’t be eating the cutest animals in Germany.



Saturday: Alex and I explored Osnabrück today, which is about a 10 minute train ride away and has a younger atmosphere to it in comparison to our family oriented town. It has way more bars, restaurants, and popular stores to shop at. While we were walking around, we found a palace and had lunch in the garden with all of the college kids since it’s now a University. I can’t even imagine what an American student would do to go to school in a palace… We then saw a several cathedrals that were absolutely breathtaking. We even got to experience culture night, which included singing, dancing, and beer, naturally. A woman even performed a song by Adelle! We learned that Germans love songs in English way more than in German. I even heard “Call Me Maybe” in one of the stores today. There are some things from home I guess I can’t escape.


Today has been really relaxing for us. Our head are spinning from this surreal week, so we were in need of an easygoing day. We both bought postcards to send home, so that’s on my to-do list. Nobody in my family or circle of friends has done anything like this, so I feel really courageous and want to touch base with everyone. The next few weeks are going to be busy with our new jobs and going to Alex’s Fulbright conference, so I’m definitely taking advantage of the peace and quiet.